Paying attention to facts, not stories, is important

The humans are emotional creatures. We are led by the emotions we feel, making some mistakes, without a proper thinking – why have we done this?. That’s the reason of many losses in our life.

Another reason for our failures is listening to the stories, to the emotions they bring, but not to the real facts. Let’s bring an example.

Imagine, that you are having an ordinary job, dreaming to have your business once in the future. Sometimes you even talk to your friends about this, who can tell that it’s risky, it’s dangerous for your family budget, it’s senseless, if you have a well-paid job. That’s what leaves you in your comfort zone and what, probably, doesn’t allow you to leave your job and start something new. It happens when you pay attention to the emotions you feel.

However, there is another side of this situation. You can not listen to the emotions of other people. You should try to listen to the facts. And they may vary.

Analyzing facts, you can understand, that sometimes refusing to take risks is much more dangerous. Sometimes living in your comfort zone is much more dangerous as well. And refusing starting bringing your dreams into life is also not the way you should go.

Emotions are good for your personal life. Express them, when you say that you love your friends, your girlfriend (or boyfriend), you children and parents. But don’t listen to the emotions when you make a decision. Only the facts must be important for you. So that if you have any chances to win – you should try, no matter how scared you are.

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