Monthly Archives: July 2016

You believe in what you believe

Believing is the basis for you success in any field. Launching some new project, starting a business, passing exams… Any kind of aim you put for yourself can be achieved, if you really believe in its realization. But how can you believe it? How can you be sure, that you won’t fail? The answer is simple – you believe what you believe.

The example of any successful entrepreneur, any person, who achieved some outstanding results, can be the alive proof of these words. What you are really sure in comes to life. So that being sure in your success or your failure automatically makes your thoughts a reality.

Everything around us is the result of someone’s beliefs. People believed, that they can communicate through the distance, they can fly, they can move with the amazing speed. Those, who worked under these achievements and believed in their success, changed our life.

If you believe, that your business will become successful, it will. It’s not a magic, or some kind of a fairy-tale, which is spread just to make you happy. It’s the reality, because, believing in something, you make it come true. Whether it’s negative or positive thoughts, whether you believe in something good or bad – it will come true.

Using this technique is simple, but powerful at the same time. You can think of realization of your dreams; you can develop the strategy for reaching your aim, just using the beliefs.

So, believe in something positive – and it will definitely come true!

Paying attention to facts, not stories, is important

The humans are emotional creatures. We are led by the emotions we feel, making some mistakes, without a proper thinking – why have we done this?. That’s the reason of many losses in our life.

Another reason for our failures is listening to the stories, to the emotions they bring, but not to the real facts. Let’s bring an example.

Imagine, that you are having an ordinary job, dreaming to have your business once in the future. Sometimes you even talk to your friends about this, who can tell that it’s risky, it’s dangerous for your family budget, it’s senseless, if you have a well-paid job. That’s what leaves you in your comfort zone and what, probably, doesn’t allow you to leave your job and start something new. It happens when you pay attention to the emotions you feel.

However, there is another side of this situation. You can not listen to the emotions of other people. You should try to listen to the facts. And they may vary.

Analyzing facts, you can understand, that sometimes refusing to take risks is much more dangerous. Sometimes living in your comfort zone is much more dangerous as well. And refusing starting bringing your dreams into life is also not the way you should go.

Emotions are good for your personal life. Express them, when you say that you love your friends, your girlfriend (or boyfriend), you children and parents. But don’t listen to the emotions when you make a decision. Only the facts must be important for you. So that if you have any chances to win – you should try, no matter how scared you are.

Let’s fight your procrastination!

Everyone knows, that procrastination can be a dangerous enemy for your projects and tasks. It can paralyze all of your current activity, bringing your productivity to a zero-level. Procrastination can come to anyone so that we should be ready to detect and to fight it. In this article, we are going to give you some tips, related to this issue.

So, first of all, we’d like to show you the symptoms of this ‘disease’, called ‘procrastination’. The main of them is the absence of doing anything. A person, who procrastinates, as a rule, has some certain task, which must be accomplished. However, she has no desire of working under it, that’s why this task stays without any movement. It’s obvious, that this person just needs to rethink the way she works.

1.Energy. Our body consumes energy. That’s why we need to refill it on a regular basis. It leads to a healthy way of life, natural fruits, and vegetables eating and so on. Our organism won’t be able to complete any task without energy.

2.Mindset. Your mindset plays a great role in your fight with a procrastination. You should bring some positive minds in your life, prepare yourself for this kind of work and get rid of the fear of starting your work.

3.Task. You should split your one big task into the different small ones. Such an approach allows you to accomplish them all, one-by-one, without any procrastination.

These tips are effective if only you make some real efforts.

Who you should compare yourself with? (Part II)

The only person, you should compare yourself with is… you. Yes, it’s only you that person, which you should be interested in. And only you is the one, whom you should compare yourself with. Let’s clear out this statement.

You’ve probably already heard this phrase, which sounds pretty glamorous. It says, that you should make a comparison only with you from the yesterday, in order to define, whether you’ve got any progress or no. Only with the help of such a method you can really know, how well you develop in your business, career, personal life and so on.

In order to stay happy and emotionally balanced, you should refuse from watching for others. You should stop watching your Facebook feed with all those smiling faces of your friends, who are doing some fun stuff. Even if you don’t stop, – please, stop compareing yourself with them. Stop saying “Oh, how beautiful they are, how perfect is their life, how happy they are”. Ask yourself all of these questions better. Ask yourself, how happier you became in comparison with yesterday. Ask yourself, whether you started earning more or no, if compareing with your previous months earning. All of these questions have positive impact,  because asking and answering them leads you to some real, certain results – and not just to self-destruction because of envy.

Define, what is your advantage today in comparison with yesterday, and improve this advantage greatly. And you’ll see, how happy your life is!

Who you should compare yourself with? (Part I)

It’s normal for humans to compare themselves with someone else. Copying and comparison are the basic mechanisms, which we learn something new through. As a child each of us starts copying the adults’ behaviour. Than, in twenty years, the same strategy is applied. It’s normal tactics for us and, frankly speaking, such an approach is useful. It helps us to find the most proper way of solving problems and behaving ourselves in some unknown, infamiliar situations. However, sometimes this strategy of copying someone else’s brings us to the bunch of problems. Here is how it happens.

Each of us evaluates everything we have all the time. We are searching for our place in some global so-called ‘rating’ among other people. That’s why, when we gain something, we put ourselves higher, and vice versa. In such way we know, that there is someone upon us and there is someone below us. Our relationship to each of these people will differ significantly.

However, during our life this position in comparison with others changes all the time, depending on our looses and victories. As a result, our self-esteem changes, according to the different events, that influence our ‘global position’.

For example, if you were promoted to some new vacation, you evaluate yourself a little bit higher; however,if you were fired – your self-esteem falls down. It’s a wrong tactics.

You should always remember, that this ‘global rating’ is in your head only. And there is only one person, who you should compare yourself with. And it’s not your direct competitor…